Have you ever loved a look or particular style that you just never thought you could pull off? Something you saw girls wearing and looking fabulous in that just didn’t fit into your image of yourself. For whatever reason? If you answered no, you’re lying.
I have countless. Some of them I can appreciate from a distance whilst acknowledging that they’re just not a part of my personal style (whatever that even means because if you know me at all you know I don’t have a singular label for the way that I dress). But there are several that I considered ‘out of my reach’ purely based on my body. Now don’t get me wrong, some of those looks would simply never work on my shape or proportions and that goes for errrrrrbody. We’re all built and formed differently. And all of those forms are beautiful. Truly. But it is important to embrace what you have and what you don’t, and knowing your shape goes a long way in dressing for it in the most flattering way. That being said, most of us are conditioned to a society where one particular body shape is deemed most beautiful. And that ideal is in a constant state of flux (now more than ever with women across the globe and myriad industries championing individual beauty and crushing perceptions). But we’re made to believe that in some way or another, something of ours is wrong. Or ugly. Ugh, society.
Now I am no exception to this rule and even now, well into my journey of self-love and body appreciation (and respect), I have my issues; parts of my body I don’t love and want to change. Mostly, it has always been my legs. It used to be a lot of other things too which I have now come to love, but I still struggle with them damn lower limbs. I won’t lie and say I love my legs. I just dislike them a little less than I used to. Enough that I recently discovered I can wear one of those previously far away, out-of-reach looks I’ve always wanted (coming back to the original idea of this post slowly, bear with me).
My fantastic friend, Candice aka Jessica Blumberg, bought this wrap dress online and when it arrived she found that it just didn’t flatter her body shape (an ok thing to admit, girls) so she passed it onto me. And with a new lease on life in the department of red and wrap dresses, I was no less than f**king STOKED to be gifted this little beauty. A public holiday, warm weather and brunch set the stage for this latest sartorial discovery: the boho-chic mini dress and boots. For years I have wanted to don this Coachella-esque look, and not for lack of trying either, but I was just never comfortable with how it looked. How my legs looked. How I looked, which of course translates to how I felt. But on that Tuesday morning I threw this on to grab a very necessary post-jol coffee and realized that actually I kinda looked good. More importantly, I felt good. So after an unidentified number of Bellini’s and a contrasting blue wall in PoHo, this post was born.
Call it self-confident. Call it vain. Call it empowered. Call it whatever you want because it doesn’t matter what you call it. It matters how I feel.
Studded boots: Zara
Floral wrap dress: Zaful (online)
Black bag: Chinese store
Earrings: Cotton On
Until next time xxx